“Love has no agenda. If you love your child only if they’re straight, if you love them only if they go to college and get a job that you approve of, if you only love someone in order to get them into your church or to join your group, that is not love. That is a sick, twisted perversion of love. That is fake and manipulative, and anytime you have an agenda, an end game, or a goal for showing love towards someone, well, that is not love at all.”